More Differences Between a Divorce Coach and a Therapist
Often there is confusion between what a divorce coach offers and what a therapist/counsellor/psychologist offers. Divorce coaches are therapists and have a graduate degree in psychology, counselling psychology, or social work, minimally to an M.A. Level. A professional association such as The College of Psychologists of BC, The Registered Clinical Counsellors Association or The Board of Registration for Social Workers governs them. In addition, they have training in Collaborative Separation and Divorce and mediation.
By the time they decide to separate and divorce some couples have already seen a therapist. They may believe that a therapist would no longer be helpful. However, a divorce coach brings new and different skills to the process.
The following chart outlines how the focus and outcome differ between a divorce coach and a therapist.
| Divorce Coach | Therapist |
|---|---|
| Outcome and action focused | Focuses on internal psychological processes |
| Focuses on keeping the divorce process moving | Explores unresolved issues from the past |
| Transparent process with disclosure when relevant | Client has complete confidentiality with the therapist |
| Goal oriented | Process oriented |
| 60% supportive of the client and 40% supportive of the divorce process as a whole | 100 % supportive of the client |
| Focuses on the post-divorce family | Focuses on the individual |
| Works in consultation with the lawyer(s) | Typically does not consult with the lawyer(s) |