- What if the spouses don’t get along well enough to be in the same room?
- Is CFL cheaper than going to court?
- What is a divorce coach, and how is a coach different from a therapist?
- How is CFL different from mediation?
- How is CFL different from going to court?
- Why do the spouses need to get new lawyers if the CFL process breaks down?
- What is the Victoria Collaborative Family Law Group?
- Okay, I’m interested. How can I get started in the CFL process?
- How can I get my spouse interested in CFL?
- How can professionals join the Victoria CFL Group?
- What roles do different professionals play in a CFL process?
How is CFL different from going to court?
Our court process is based on an adversarial system. This means that each party’s lawyer presents the best possible case for the client without considering the interests of the other party. If a case goes to court, each party is subject to cross-examination by their former spouse’s lawyer. The decision-making power rests solely with the judge. The parties have little control over the outcome. CFL allows the parties to make more creative arrangements that are best for them and their children. CFL is a confidential, private process while court is public.